There are many, many ways to achieve the very same goal. It is the simple act of knowing what you want and seeking that out which calls it to you. If you don't know what you want, maybe it's because you are spending too much time listening to others as a means to find that which will set your own heart ablaze. First & foremost, listen to your own inner truth and trust yourself, find that which excites you and you will know what it is that you truly want, tune yourself to that...and enjoy the ride. Life is beautiful. <3